FAQs – Frequently Asked Questions.

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Introduction.

This post covers some frequently asked questions that stay-at-home moms get asked. The work of a stay-at-home mother might seem perplexing to people who do not spend their whole day with their children. Whether a mother can afford to stay at home or does so because her pay would barely cover daycare costs, most stay-at-home mothers understand how it feels to receive an insensitive comment. Here are some of the disrespectful questions that some stay-at-home parents have received after electing to remain at home with their children

While it is no one’s business why you chose to be a stay-at-home parent, and no one in an ideal world should be subjected to having to put up with rude comments, having a response ready may be powerful at times. So, to assist those women the next time they are confronted with similar queries, we have also developed some suggested responses:

Frequently Asked Questions & Comments.

Q.    What do you do all day?

A. “Oh, nothing much,” you want to reply. “I eat chocolates and watch soap operas.”

It’s recommended you say: Contrary to popular belief, a stay-at-home mom has a never-ending pile of work to complete. You may answer, “I do a variety of activities during the day, from housework to community service to focusing on my profession and helping my kids experience the world, and before I know it, it’s the end of the day.”

Q.    What did you do when you worked?

A. “I actually still work, and I work harder than I used to,” you want to add.

It’s recommended you say: There’s nothing wrong with this query when put more tactfully. If you are asked this inappropriate question, react with an enthusiastic informative response such as: “Before I had kids, I was an engineer, defence lawyer, and primary school teacher], and I have to tell you, it was a lot simpler than the work I do now!”

Q.   “I don’t understand how you didn’t finish it” (phone call, errand, etc.)

A. “I actually still work, and I work harder than I used to,” you want to add.

It’s recommended you say: There’s nothing wrong with this query when put more tactfully. If you are asked this inappropriate question, react with an enthusiastic informative response such as: “Before I had kids, I was an engineer, defence lawyer, and primary school teacher], and I have to tell you, it was a lot simpler than the work I do now!”

C.    “It must be so pleasant and nice to be a stay-at-home mom”[when nice means easy].

What you want to say: If you believe it’s simple to put up with countless messes and never-ending wailing from small kids whose moods change on a whim and who may or may not hurl food at you, then yeah.

It’s recommended you say: Because there is no way to compare which is easier and which is more challenging, we recommend you emphasize on the plenty of work that all moms must do by stating something like, “We all work incredibly hard.” Kids are a lot of work, whether at home or in business, and we Moms wear many hats.”

Q.    What did you do when you worked?

A. “I actually still work, and I work harder than I used to,” you want to add.

It’s recommended you say: There’s nothing wrong with this query when put more tactfully. If you are asked this inappropriate question, react with an enthusiastic informative response such as: “Before I had kids, I was an engineer, defence lawyer, and primary school teacher], and I have to tell you, it was a lot simpler than the work I do now!”

Q.    “How about asking one of the stay-at-home moms to do it?” I work.”

A. “Nice idea”, you want to remark. “We, stay-at-home parents, have an infinite amount of time!”

It’s recommended you say: People must acknowledge that the capacity of stay-at-home parents to conduct volunteer work varies greatly depending on the age of their children. While they have flexibility, they do not have endless time. Regardless of work level, one should not make others feel bad for not having extra time for more work or volunteering. In this circumstance, you may take the high road and say, “All of us are quite busy in our own lives, so if you can find the time to take part, we would love it.”

Q.    “Are you required to ask your husband for money?”

A. “No, do you?” you want to say.

Advice: The first implication of this improper question is that stay-at-home mothers don’t make any money, which is not the case in some households. Many mothers are still involved in something that generates income. Rather than simply explaining your family’s finances, which is none of anyone’s business, it’s suggested you say something like, “We all make choices and financial decisions in our life, and the ones we’ve made for our family work for us.”

Q.    “Because you don’t work, you don’t comprehend.”

A. “Oh, please,” you want to say. “Is this happening again?”

It’s recommended you say: If you haven’t walked in the shoes of a working mom, you may not understand what it’s like. However, discounting the efforts of a stay-at-home mother is not fair. We recommend reacting to this remark with something like, “We all work hard for our families, and everyone definitely wants the best for their children.” The best thing we can do is appreciate and support one another and value all of our efforts in parenting children in today’s environment. “

Q.    “When are you returning to work?”

A. What you’d want to say: Why? Are you concerned that I’ll squander my education?

What the experts advise you to say: This question might be posed innocently or with an underlying when-are-you-going-to-do-something-worthwhile message. Answer the question honestly, but try to focus on the importance of what you’re doing right now. “For now, I’m feeling incredibly blessed to have this time with my children, and I believe they’re benefiting from it as well,” for example.

Q.    “I could never stay at home all day with my kids.”

A. You may want to say: you’re missing out.

Advice: People appear to say, “You’re so domestic and basic; if staying at home with the kids is fulfilling for you, but I couldn’t do it,” in this situation. Change this to a positive by saying, “I thought that way too until I started doing it”, will help you turn it into a positive. Right now, it’s best for my family, and I’m happy I can make it happen.

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